Congratulations. It sounds like a fascinating story with a lot of heart. Distinctive technique. Because of the shape of the match sticks it takes on a little bit of a Van Gogh feel, doesn't it.
Just to let you know, this is a website for digital painting done to some degree in the program ArtRage. Have you thought about doing digital painting? You can download a free demo and see if it's something you would enjoy. You might be able to apply your artistry in that way as well.
"Not a bit is wasted and the best is yet to come. . ." -- remembered from a dream